Friday, June 24, 2005
What Girls think.... A man's view Part 1

It has been from eternity that never has a man understood what a woman really thinks... what is behind that eyes that glow and sparkle when necessary....


To began this series a few things I have noticed about boys and girls...

Part 1- Friendship

Two boys can be closest friends but may not even talk
all they do is throw a ball to each other... go to a bar together... sit and watch tv together
communication is not necessary between two guys to be the closest friends
as long his best friend can sit with him all through a ball game and support his team they will be the best friends....

I recently met a close friend of mine i guess we met about 8 yrs later we had no communication but 3 minutes into the meeting we went back to same old pal situation no issues and we are still the best friends....

this episode made me think do girls think the same thing have life simple like a boy...

And the answer is
NO

Girls by nature are not so simple creatures
I guess they are not because they are the epitome of a relationship
all relationship in a family surrounds around one female.. always
It is as if that Male is just a person whose responsibility is to bring food regualarly
family contacts, maintainance of relationship
upbringing of a child depends on a woman...
even in the man dominated family ( which is decreasing day by day) woman are the anchor...

so with this basal knowledge how do u expect two girls who are friends to behave
do they behave like boys sit around watch TV nd become good friends
the answer is no...

girls need to talk.. talk anything from gossip to gossip
like to be appreciated and want to be supported ( all though girls need support from their friends for a friendship but men are the ones who need support and caring in a relationship..isn't it an irony)
A woman needs another woman but a man needs a woman...

friendship in girls breaks if communication is lost
and when they remeet it takes more than 3 min to be best pals again..
A girl needs to know what her friend support not some team in a ball game but her view point in the surrounding environment
Is she worthy enough to have an alliance...

That is the reason a guy can sit watch TV and not think as he does not see the weight playing around in the surrounding but enjoy the moment...
unlike a girl who in her basal state thinks about how to interact with a particular person...


The question is in this complex society will it be simple if girls start behaving like boys...
or will it go worse...
what do u say...

posted by Rakesh @ Friday, June 24, 2005  
3 Comments:
  • At Saturday, June 25, 2005, Blogger gulnaz said…

    thanks for dropping by and commenting on my blog. hope to see you again there.

    obviously there is a difference between men and women but all men and all women are not the same. the more you will interact with the other sex, the more you will understand and appreciate them. i would suggest you have an open mind on this issue and think from a fresh prespective as you are quite capable of. i hope you don't mind my saying this.

     
  • At Saturday, June 25, 2005, Blogger adsiez said…

    Hey rakesh...
    like what gulnaz says, its true...not all gerls are like what u think they are.
    sometimes it is erroneus to surmise that girls are THAT complex just based on those that you have interacted with or observed.

    truth is...
    everyone's complex and we can never predict whats to come and how it shapes our perception in life. :)

    just my 2 cents worth...

     
  • At Saturday, June 25, 2005, Blogger Rakesh said…

    Thanx gulnaz for dropping by

    I agree with you that ever woman is different but i cannot say same about men as most men think much more similarly than woman...


    and surely i will interact with more woman

    then give my views about woman...
    I will not hurry to make statement

    thanx gulnaz for being honest...

    and adsiez thanxfor dropping by your views are precious ( i know just my 2 cents worth... means something but honest i do not know...) so i want to say every word you write is considered to be an important viewpoint

    please do visit regularly

     
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